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      <image:title>Blog - 3 Things to Work on Before You Start Potty Training - Before you dive into one of the many intensive potty training programs, here are three things you can work on that will make your experience quicker, easier, and more successful. We all want to potty train as quickly as possible. There are messes, more laundry than usual, panicked dashes into retail establishments. By working on these three prerequisites before you even think about switching to underwear, you will set yourself up for the calm, successful potty training experience that you want.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - If Your Child is Struggling to Follow Directions, Here’s What’s Not Helping… - We’ve all heard of the emotional piggy bank, love tank, or bucket, but do you know how that has to do with your child’s behavior?</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Big Personal News… - I have a big personal announcement here - I am joining the ranks and becoming a ShineSpace mom! Graham and I are expecting our first baby in late June, and I’ll keep you posted on all the updates (are you interested?)</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - What’s The Problem With Positive Parenting?</image:title>
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    <loc>https://www.createshinespace.com/blog/using-social-stories-to-prepare-your-child-for-a-new-baby</loc>
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      <image:title>Blog - Using Social Stories to Prepare Your Child for a New Baby - Having a new baby is so exciting, but feeling worry about your child understanding and being prepared to welcome a new sibling is totally normal.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Help your child get ready for a new baby brother or sister. Worried about helping the adjust or understand a new baby? This can help!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - One Common Mistake Parents Make When it Comes to Teaching how to Share - Many small children have difficulty sharing with others. This can be especially challenging during playdates, and if you have multiple children, the issue of sharing toys can feel like a never ending battle.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Parents, do you need help teaching your kids to share? Do they fight over toys, and push or hit each other, or grab toys from each other? Try this to teach them how to problem solve and get along!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - 5 Ideas for Helping Wiggly Kids Sit Still - I love that kids are naturally playful, bouncy, and wiggly, and I encourage parents to allow movement whenever possible, but sometimes kids do need to sit still.</image:title>
      <image:caption>My child won’t sit still. How can I help them focus?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - 4 Ways to Create Meaningful FaceTime Interactions for Preschoolers - Grandma is so excited to FaceTime with her preschool aged grandson. He just turned three! She dials the number and you, the mom answer while holding a squirming 3-year-old in your lap (he just wants to play with his new truck). “Hi it’s Grandma!” she says…. blank stare from child…”What did you get for your birthday?” … blank stare from child…. “Did you have some cake?” …blank stare from child…. or he tries to run away. You get it!</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - 3 Things I’m Doing to Engage Kindergarten Students in Online Learning - If you are a parent or teacher experiencing online learning, there is a lot you can do to support your child or students.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Make a Schedule That Works for Your Child - I know you hear “schedule and think “I’m not a schedule person!” There are many ways to build in flexibility, and still help your child cope with change, transitions, and getting through hard things!</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Avoiding Power Struggles - Mama, I know you’re tired of repeating yourself over and over to your little one. You may have yelled, your child may have cried, and you may have both cried as you carried your struggling little one out of a grocery store or away from a park, feeling like all eyes were on you.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Tips for Teaching Safety Skills to Young Children - Teaching safety skills is crucial. Here’s how to talk to your children so they listen when it’s really important.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Use Role Play  to Manage Your Child’s Impulsive Behavior - In this post we will go over one playful way to help your child manage their impulses.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Make Online Learning Easier on Kids and Parents - 3 things you can do today to decrease tantrums, anxiety, and big behaviors as we start the school year.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Make a place where your child isn’t excluded or put in time out, but instead learn how to teach self management, how to respond when your preschooler has a tantrum, or how to manage hitting, kicking, not sharing. He’s not a bad kid, and you aren’t a bad mom.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>About - About Claire</image:title>
      <image:caption>I am the owner of ShineSpace, a holistically minded and heart-led Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and Educator with over 10 years of experience. I have worked with families in their homes, in clinical settings, and in schools to improve family quality of life.  I specialize in making small changes to routines, environments, and styles of communication that can help you make big changes to the level of stress and anxiety both you and your child feel, and help you feel confident. I want you to have the tools and skills to manage big-behavior, and to shift into a way of parenting that feels authentic, intuitive, and grounded in your child’s needs (and yours!) not a parenting trend. Let’s work together to help you and your child shine.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Welcome! You’re tuned into all things positive parenting but find the mainstream strategies arduous and stressful. Tools and tricks shouldn’t feel like more work, or like they are trying to tame or change your child, they should bring you true relief. At ShineSpace Parenting, I provide holistic, environmentally focused intervention and solutions. I will help you to create a safe and comfortable place where both you and your child can become their best self — in your home, in their classrooms, and eventually, the world! At ShineSpace Parenting we don’t… Glorify Influencer parenting | Shame parents | Aim for perfection I Try to change you or your child in any way.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Home - Hi, I’m Claire.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m a wellness oriented, heart-led Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Educator, and mom of two, with over 10 years of experience and a Masters degree in Education. I have worked with hundreds of families in their homes, in clinical settings and in schools. Today I specialize in working with parents who find it challenging to get through the day because of their child’s behavior.  But I don’t believe you need to do a single thing to change your child – I  know I wouldn’t want someone to tell me to change my sons. I also don’t think the answer lies with punishments or coercion. It’s about making a space where kids can shine exactly as they are. I believe we can make the world a truly inclusive space for all children, alongside happier parents. If you desire to find more ease in your life, and want to embrace your child exactly as they are, ShineSpace Parenting is for you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Are you a parent who wants to… Explore alternatives to traditional ABA or behavioral therapy? prioritize a long term healthy relationship with your child? Use parenting tools that are respectful and feel aligned with your values? Show reverence for both your own needs and your child’s needs? Bring more ease into your daily life, no matter what that day brings? If you answered yes to any of these questions, ShineSpace Parenting is for you. Typically we will have 6-8 sessions. Following our time together, you should expect to see a reduction in harmful, unsafe, and maladaptive behaviors. You should expect to feel relief, comfort, and ease in your day to day. You should expect to have more tools, an understanding of how the environment, rhythm and routine of your day to day can impact both you and your child. You should also expect a major mindset shift when it comes to getting both your needs and your child’s needs met in a way that brings comfort, safety, and connection into your home. You are a parent who has found that most online courses and coaches aren’t writing and teaching to you, the parents of the spicy ones, the kids with big hearts and big personalities (that you DON"‘T want to turn down the volume on!), but I am. This is for you, this is your place, this is your child’s place and there is not one thing we need to change about either of you. Let’s help you shine together ❤</image:caption>
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